Welcome!
I got your point at 30 seconds, and as a 'guy who likes guys' I don't understand why you're so up in arms. What fuels your passion for this "movement" you're trying to start? Is it a boy?
More like "was a boy." The one that got away because of Christer culture's prohibition on same-sex sex and the lack of masculine-masculine groups that would allow men to not be thought of as effeminate for liking other men. Revenge! Or something like that.
Basically, the gays don't have very many masculine guys around. I figured this out while dating a gay guy and being in the gay community enough to know that I didn't fit in. I neither related to gay men and while I was sexually attracted to them (like to women), I don't see myself long-term with a feminine partner.
