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#11

Open Board / Re: Creepy 50-foot fish spotte...

Last post by XPlover - January 05, 2017, 11:55:50 PM

Awesome. I'm glad they found it on the beach and didn't murder it......  :-]

#12

Open Board / Re: The Truth About George Zim...

Last post by XPlover - January 05, 2017, 11:53:25 PM

Ahhh, you post Stefan. What a great, terrific sign!

You're actually a kind of right-leaning populist -- in the proper, healthy sense of the word that was universally accepted until psychopathic politicians recently started ruining it. I haven't watched the video, am just stopping in briefly, but plan to later in youtube. (Possibly for the second time.)

Stefan was a bit crazy till just a couple of years ago, but like Trump and a lot of people he's been getting smarter by the day.

Right thinking clashes with everything in the gay "movement," except that some gays have gotten real on the evils of Zionism of late, eliciting screams of "hatred" and "anti-semitism" from the thought police. Of course deep down liberals are all the things they claim to despise. Much as they may parrot the slogans their college teachers would want them to, casual conversation with them (or a glance at their actual lifestyle) normally shows it's pure posturing.

#13

Open Board / Re: "My boyfriend says my vagi...

Last post by XPlover - January 05, 2017, 11:38:36 PM

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2013/may/12/boyfriend-says-my-vagina-is-repulsive

I don't know if it's the title or the leading image...

That's funny! An obvious explanation suggests itself  :-]

#14

Open Board / Re: Grero in a meme

Last post by XPlover - January 05, 2017, 11:35:18 PM

Well -- nice! I think Ron Paul would readily approve.

Playing in the background as I work -- better than music:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NaVjXvjj2mQ

#15

Open Board / Re: Must a man be a wreck simp...

Last post by XPlover - January 05, 2017, 11:29:36 PM

I guess most people upside of about 40 inwardly or outwardly crave somebody younger to boogie with. Notably but not (!) only us fags. Leonard Cohen put it rather jadedly, if cleverly....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Skin_for_the_Old_Ceremony

#16

Open Board / Must a man be a wreck simply b...

Last post by vincentdigrero - January 03, 2017, 05:32:00 AM

Throughout my life I've noticed in many of the gay social circles, that the obsession with physical beauty and bodily perfection appears to be the major preoccupation. Perhaps this is more prevalent in places such as bars and clubs. The obsession with youth is also on many peoples minds in both homosexual and heterosexual circles. I can really sympathize with those who may not be valued as beautiful/attractive or the model of an olympian. What is going on here? Do gay, bi, and grero men simply have more of an eye for the beautiful? As we age it gets worse and I'm sure that there are many of us in our golden years who are ignored by the gay community or the straight community.

Throughout my life I have tried to take care of myself for health reasons and for good self-esteem. I think in general that women do a better job in taking care of themselves as they age.  For men, it's a different story. The older male stars, politicians, and the rich might do a better job that just the average "Joe." Just because we are older doesn't mean we have to be falling apart, obese, unkempt, and wearing the most baggy, horrid clothes that we can find. I see this all the time -- an older couple, a man and a woman, where the woman is smartly dressed, good makeup job, dyed hair and maybe even a well preserved body. The man is looking old, washed up, crummy clothes, fat, and frowning. Do heterosexual men view taking care of themselves as a feminine characteristic? Vanity is for women only? We all know that deep down, that men are probably even more vain than women.

It is my belief that as we gays/greros age, we can remain physically beautiful throughout our lives. Sure, we might not look 30 years old anymore, but this is the time that we can let our inner beauty shine through which will project a younger persona. The benefits of staying healthy and well groomed are many. We will have an excellent quality of life as we age and we will feel good and alive -- not a wreck.

Being healthy and alive simply feels good! May you all abound in abundant health!

#17

Open Board / Re: Why the society do not acc...

Last post by XPlover - December 28, 2016, 06:59:39 PM

"Haters want the "enemy" well-defined and recognizable -- this takes the attention off of the haters." Now that's a good point in particular.

#18

Open Board / Re: Why the society do not acc...

Last post by vincentdigrero - December 28, 2016, 05:43:43 AM

Acceptance is not an issue with greros because we fit in pretty much with mainstream society. Those of us who are single might get a question about not being married or having children from time to time, but we really can function pretty well if we remain discreet. Where marriage is concerned, there will always be infidelities for a variety of reasons. The haters really don't like to acknowledge that greros exist because they are not identifiable like effeminate guys. Haters want the "enemy" well-defined and recognizable -- this takes the attention off of the haters.

#19

Open Board / Re: When bashing Russia over g...

Last post by XPlover - December 27, 2016, 05:51:44 PM

Realistically I think we have to understand countries that don't want "gay liberation" movements -- and IMHO that's really really what's at issue here. Most societies have some level of tolerance for discreet gayness, but when the harpies start parading naked and demolishing the existing culture and legal system it just polarizing everything. Ruins it, really.

All liberally-approved movements have polarization at their core. It didn't have to be this way, but it is. I suspect tolerance would have evolved without the militants' help, just as slavery was phased out in numerous societies like our own without a melodramatic bankers' war meaninglessly costing 650,000 lives. America is a land of extremes, usually involving violence.

#20

Open Board / Re: Why the society do not acc...

Last post by XPlover - December 27, 2016, 05:43:59 PM

Perhaps the heterosexual nuclear family is the myth and homosexuality/grero is the reality.  That's what you just admitted.

On the contrary, tony has just voiced the achilles heel of grero (its blithe and freewheeling acceptance of sexual hedonism a priori) and the bedrock reality that cannot coexist with it. Not to mention the curse we guys are under that drives us to choose the former!

Ultimately it's a crazy world in which nothing actually fits together. But any society that wants to have a stable, healthy future will have to proscribe "sexual freedom". No matter how you slice it, somebody's going to suffer badly -- the chaste or the libertines. Because of diseases, I for one could no more imagine visiting a prostitute than jumping off a cliff, but that's just me. Antibiotics are losing their power as we speak.